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Missing 411: For people who want to know more. Unexplained disappearances and other weirdness

2014.04.15 15:34 hyperactivelime Missing 411: For people who want to know more. Unexplained disappearances and other weirdness

Information and discussion about people who go missing in National Parks and forests, and rural and urban areas, as detailed in the Missing 411 media. This is an unofficial, independant subreddit with no ties to CanAm Missing Project.

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2023.06.05 11:50 HugeJaguar3589 When should you tell your employer about your pregnancy?

So I’ve found out I’m pregnant relatively early. Going by the first day of my last period I’m around 4 weeks. I’ve been looking up when you tel your employer and a lot of them say just after the first trimester usually but you can tell them before. I’m looking at telling them pretty soon due to the fact that I’ve suffered a miscarriage before and there’s a work trip at the end of this month. If I’m early in my pregnancy I would prefer not to go incase, god forbid, anything happened. What’s everyone’s opinions on this?
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2023.06.05 11:50 PayResponsible4458 Meanwhile in Iram

Meanwhile in Iram
This has to be seen to be believed because mainstream media won't report this. These people aren't protesting some outside power rather they're waking up to the oppression of their own government that became too steeped in religion and religious morality. This is what happens when government can't keep separate from religion. May we remember this, for the sake of those all who we might paint with the same brush due to their religion and for our own.
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2023.06.05 11:50 No_Eggplant3201 Being over sexualized is fueling my ED

Went out to the mall with a sibling and my SO. Big step for me because I’ve been isolating and feeling too dysmorphic to “get ready”. Not that it should matter what I wore, but I had a plain black long sleeve and biker shorts (both full coverage).
Not even 5mins in to the mall was I beginning to get harassed. I could feel the stares, I heard the quiet but gross comments about my body. My SO and sibling were very supportive and let me know when it happened/tried to stop it, and I tried to shrug it off like it didn’t bother me but it did.
My curves shouldn’t make me a spectacle. How much weight will I have to lose to be left alone? Will it even matter?? I hate my body, that’s why I harm it. Maybe I should just stay in the house forever and wear giant pajamas. Ugh.
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2023.06.05 11:50 diecleanandpretty can’t sleep from my fear of stroke

if someone could talk to me that would be great. i am a 15 year old female. i’ve been reading statistics and articles about strokes all night long. i know it’s just making my anxiety worse and i keep trying to stop but it’s like i HAVE to read that article that pops up in case there’s something important that i haven’t seen in another article. i can really feel a panic attack coming on right now. i know strokes are pretty rare in people my age but they still happen and that frightens me. it’s like i’ve kind of convinced myself that it WILL happen to me. that i will be one of those unlucky people who has a stroke before 45. i keep imagining my mom finding my body or having a stroke in my sleep and not knowing. or the worst one is surviving the stroke but ending up in a vegetative state. also the idea of having a stroke and getting “locked in syndrome” from it which basically means you can’t move anything but your eyes but you’re fully aware of what’s happening to you and around you. i’m scared of being helpless and not being able to get help or save myself. at the core of this i think i’m just scared of death but it’s a petrifying feeling
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2023.06.05 11:49 Cabagepatchbb does anyone else?

does any one else have no problem taking about what happened to them through text but cannot / have not said it aloud in conversation to any one?
this is one of the reasons i havent been able to go in for my police interview i feel as if im chocking when i try to verbally talk about the things that happened, my throat gets dry and the words struggle come out, i feel so choked up when i think about saying it
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2023.06.05 11:49 Feisty-Ad276 AITA for telling my dads girlfriend to f**k off and never contact me again

(It’s long sorry) This happened today and I need help. Backstory, my (25F) mum passed away 18 months ago after being sick for a few years. My dad (55m) started dating Karen (42F) 6 months ago.
My parents were highschool sweethearts who had been together since they were 14 and they were 20 when I was born, I’m an only child. They tried to have more kids but it never happened so I was the most loved (spoilt) kid ever and my parents are my best friends.
Dad and Karen worked together for years and she was always around for help when mum was sick, after she passed away my dad leant on her for support and she was around alot. When my dad told me they had started seeing eachother I freaked out as it was so soon after mum & we got in a fight. Since then I’ve been happy for both of them even if I’m not 100% happy about it.
I recently moved out of home and forgot a few things so I called dad to see if he could bring them to me and Karen answered his phone, she said he was working but she would bring them and get to see my new house and I was happy with that.
When she got to my house she rang the doorbell (I have a ring doorbell so could see it was her) and I opened the door and gave her a hug, she said ‘oh honey this is so exciting and you know your mum is always so proud of you’ then I cried because I miss my mum so bad and wanted her to be there. I said ‘I know, and I’m sure she’s looking down smiling at me but I just wish she was here’ - this is where the problems start
K - I am here for you honey, your mum is always here for you
Me - thank you for being here Karen and bringing my stuff, do you want to come in?
K - Honey I think we both know that young girls need mums, and since your first mum has been gone for a while I think it’s time you start calling me mum
Me- (very sassy/angry) The f**k did you just say? You are NOT my mum and I will NEVER call you that, you don’t deserve to speak about her
K - Just think about it okay, I’ve looked into adult adoption and I think this is a really good option for us both and I’ve always seen you as a daughter
Me - I’m not thinking about it and how dare you even come to MY house and spring this on me
K - well that’s no way to speak to your mother young lady, you need to apologise to me now.
Me - (holding back sad/angry tears) No, and I think you should leave
K - oh honey don’t cry, your mum hates seeing you sad like this
Me - you are NOT my mum and if you don’t leave right now I will call the police!
K - you don’t mean that
Me - I do, and you need to fk off and never contact me again if this is how our conversations will go, leave me and my dad the fk alone you psycho b**ch.
She left crying, dad tried to call but I ignored it and he text me saying ‘we need to talk, Karen is very upset about what you said’
I haven’t responded and I’ve been crying all afternoon - I don’t know what to do. If he takes her side I will never speak to him again.
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2023.06.05 11:48 LittleSchmoopie Struggling with work environment

First post on Reddit. I'm reaching out because I find myself in a challenging situation during my PhD journey and I could really use some advice. I apologize in advance for the long post, but I feel it's important to provide some context. For the past two years, I have been facing difficulties in my work environment that have taken a toll on my mental health. The isolation at work, combined with the overwhelming workload and lack of guidance, eventually led me into depression and burnout. I have sought help from a psychologist and psychiatrist to manage these challenges. I have tried expressing my struggles to Joe, my PI, but I always approached the topic cautiously due to fear of his wife Jane, who was a PostDoc in the lab. She has previously labeled me as "fragile" and "overreacting." I have witnessed her mocking other colleagues who experienced burnout and even heard her refer to a fellow doctoral student as autistic simply because the student lacked self-confidence. Additionally, I didn't want to speak up because Jane and Joe offered me their house to stay, which is only 20min away from the lab, while I was still living with my parents over an hour away. I felt indebted to them and hesitant to voice my concerns about the lack of supervision, insufficient lab records to continue their work, and unhelpful remarks. Colleagues from other teams within the lab have often pointed out that my situation is not normal. They emphasized that I shouldn't have been expected to be independent right from the start, let alone be alone in the lab. However, I had a hard time accepting their perspective, believing the problem was solely mine and that I should be able to handle everything. At a certain point, my mental state deteriorated to such an extent that Sven, my other PI and head of the team, organized a meeting with Joe and me. Despite having a lot on my mind, I didn't dare speak up because Jane was present. Sven reassured me that this situation wouldn't last. Indeed, last September, Joe returned to the lab, but Jane had to stay to finish her contract at another location. Another engineer, Achille, was also hired, making the lab feel less empty and lifting my spirits. However, having scientific discussions with Joe remained challenging, especially since Jane became pregnant and Joe was frequently absent. I confided in a friend from another team about my distress, and I suspect that the assistant director of the building overheard our conversation and relayed it to the unit director. The director confronted me in his office, stating that he had heard I wasn't doing well due to supervision issues. I reassured him that things had improved and solutions had been put in place (which is true, with the return of Joe and Sven, weekly meetings had resumed). I also mentioned that I had informed my team about my psychological fragility, and Joe was now more attentive to my well-being. However, the director's intervention made me reflect deeply and filled me with some fear. Following this, I shared my concerns with Achille, the new engineer. I expressed my guilt about tarnishing Joe's image and then he revealed many things about Joe's perception of me. Essentially, he suggested that my distress was not solely due to professional isolation but rather because of my long-distance relationship with my fiance. This triggered some connections in my mind. Joe would often say things like, "When things aren't going well in your personal life, it affects your work too," or "Yes, Intel is sad because his wife is far away," or "We would like to send OP to your place, as she is fiance's girlfriend" I started questioning whether I was seen as a second-year PhD student, or just my fiance's depressed girlfriend. I discussed this with Sven, who once again assured me that I was recruited for my skills and not just because the lab was empty. He also revealed that when Joe was separated from Jane during his postdoc in Canada, he called Sven in tears, unable to handle the emotional separation. Joe seems to assume that I am experiencing the same emotional struggle with my fiance. Sven advised me to forgive Joe, which I did. However, a week later, Joe completely ignored me over a salad incident. Tom, another colleague, returned from a mission and asked if we could have lunch together after a meeting. I called Joe to discuss my results, and he informed me that he would only be available at noon because he was at the doctor's with his wife and newborn. I mentioned that Tom would be disappointed as he wanted to have lunch outside with the team. Suddenly, Joe became upset and took it upon himself to say that we would meet at a Salad Bar, with his wife and child, waiting in the parking lot until 11:45 before settling down. I kindly reminded him that I didn't like that restaurant and suggested an alternative. He replied that I could make it up with dessert. Noon arrived, and Tom was still in the meeting. I informed Joe, and he told me to inform Tom that there was an emergency in the lab, which I felt was inappropriate. In the meantime, I bumped into Achille and shared the plan with him, jokingly mentioning that it's a shame since I don't like salad. He responded that he didn't like it either and called Joe to convey that message, even though I told him it wasn't necessary. Nevertheless, he called Joe and returned, informing me that Joe agreed to go somewhere else. Still no news from Tom. Ten minutes later, Jane called Achille and unleashed her anger, saying they were waiting in the car with their newborn, and I hadn't thought to inform Achille since it slipped my mind while I was working. Achille was confused, and Jane said it was no longer necessary for us to join them. Achille relayed the conversation, and I felt a bit lost. Tom came out of the meeting, and Achille shared all the details with him. Tom decided not to join Joe and Jane, so we followed suit. When we returned, I went to see if Joe had come back to apologize for the misunderstanding, but I caught him angrily scolding Achille. I got scared and discreetly left the scene. This was followed by three weeks of Joe giving me the cold shoulder, and I was afraid to approach him. Finally, I gathered the courage to apologize for the misunderstanding, but I faced an avalanche of reproaches. Joe was disappointed that I hadn't come to apologize earlier, and he compared me to a manipulative person. All of this over a salad misunderstanding. Once again, I'm at a loss as to how to resolve this situation. According to Joe, he remained "professional," but every time he approached me, he exuded frustration and criticism. I confided in Sven about everything, despite my reluctance to bother him once again. He reassured me that I had nothing to blame myself for and that there must be something else behind all of this. Sven had a conversation with Joe about the salad incident and my concerns regarding supervision. Joe didn't take it well and took two weeks of leave. Jane returned to work the following week and accused me of accusing Joe of "psychological harassment." All I wanted to convey was that I regretted not having received adequate supervision and apologize once again for the misunderstanding. I was lost about what to do next. It feels like a toxic environment, and I worry about the impact it's having on my mental health and overall well-being. I genuinely want to focus on my research and make progress in my PhD, but these personal challenges and the strained work environment are hindering my ability to do so. Have any of you faced similar situations or dealt with difficult work environments? How did you navigate through them? What steps did you take to address the issues and create a healthier and more supportive work environment? I'm interested in hearing suggestions on how to effectively communicate with my supervisor and address the challenges I'm facing. How can I express my concerns without fear of retribution or further worsening the situation?
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2023.06.05 11:48 craypoupon Contractor took $14,000 from my elderly parents and ghosted; I tracked him down. Recourse options?

Early in 2022, my parents (78M, 75F) engaged a contractor about building them a deck. They provided mockups of the deck they wanted superimposed over images of their house; clearly visualizing what they were looking for. They agreed on $16,000 + materials, with work to commence in the spring.
The bad news: this contractor is not licensed / bonded and there was no SOW / contract signed. The good news (?): All of their conversations happened over Facebook Messenger / text, which clearly details their agreement and events as they unfolded.
Contractor stated he would need a $10k deposit, to be paid when he came around to measure. Upon taking the deposit check, he said he would need another $4k for lumber / materials, which he would purchase. My parents wrote him another check, and they all agreed to store the lumber in my parent’s barn.
Some days later, he showed up with a crew and building materials. Day 1 they set the posts; Day 2 they framed out the deck. A storm rolled in cutting Day 2 short - contractor said they didn’t have time to transfer lumber to barn, but they would be back in a few days to complete the job. I think you know where this is going…
My parents reached out via text after a week, after 20 days, after 30 days - each time asking when contractor and crew would be back. 45 days later they expressed concern about their lumber being stored properly and he replied with a ton of excuses - he had been ill, there was some issue with his son, etc. - he said he would be back out the following Tuesday to complete the job. Nope.
From April to October, my parents texted 20+ times, as well as leaving multiple voicemails. Occasionally, texts / Facebook messages would be marked Read, but he never replied. In early 2023 my parents (finally) informed contractor they were going to the police, and he replied he’d been meaning to get back out but winter makes it hard, and asked if they could set something up for spring. Cue him never responding again - eventually the line was disconnected. He was never coming back to finish.
I am just now learning about this on a visit to my parents, they have been hiding this out of embarrassment. Firstly, I am gobsmacked that my typically savvy parents would just…hand over bags of money to some internet rando. But then, reading through all the message threads, seeing my parents earnestly trying to connect, confused, pleading for any communication at all for months and months…I am beside myself with rage and hell bent on getting justice for them.
This is where I could use some guidance - I don’t know how much justice is possible here. This is no longer about the money. Of course I want recompense, but this is about what he put my parents through. The total dehumanization of fraud. I am livid.
So I went on Facebook through my mom’s account and turned over every rock in this man’s digital life, then ran a background check. Here’s what I have:
  1. legal name + alias
  2. DOB
  3. current address
  4. Current phone numbers (landline and cell)
  5. current email addresses
  6. arrest record (incl. passing bad checks)
  7. chat transcripts
My parents want to press charges, so for now the next move is to file a police report for fraud with the above info (unless advised otherwise?)
Additional questions:
Would this violate any state or federal elder abuse protections?
I don’t think he should get credit for the two days’ work. We are currently talking to a (licensed, bonded) contractor about picking up the job. As there was no survey done or permit pulled, we anticipate they will need to tear down the existing structure for a total loss.
We have no receipt for the lumber, and no lumber. Would that $4k be classified as theft? Larceny?
I currently don’t have a ton of faith that my parents’ money will be returned - I want consequences to come from this. If there’s anything I should be considering or including in the charges I would so appreciate your wisdom.
Thanks for reading.
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2023.06.05 11:48 QuietestDesperations As ADA advocates, many subreddits are joining in r/blind in Reddit wide protest blackout.

Post on Blind
Unfortunately, new Reddit, and the official Reddit apps, just don't provide us with the levels of accessibility we need in order to continue effectively running this community. As well, the Transcribers of Reddit, the many dedicated folks who volunteer to transcribe and describe thousands and thousands of images on Reddit, may also be unable to operate.
One of our moderators, u/itsthejoker, has had multiple hour-long calls with various Reddit employees. However, as of the current time, our concerns have gone unheard, and Reddit remains firm. That's why the moderation team of blind now feels that we have no choice but to take further action.
The protest:
In solidarity with thousands of other subreddits who are impacted by this change, we will be shutting down the blind subreddit for 48 hours from June 12th to June 14th. You will not be able to read or make posts during that time.
ModCoord also has a post talking about this issue and advocating for a protest:
In the rush to draft a response to reddit's decision to kill Third Party Apps, our team made an omission in calculating the impact this move by reddit will have on its users.
For the visually impaired, iOS is a disaster.
Here is how this was explained to me:
On Android, the official Reddit mobile app is reasonably usable with the Android screen reader, but the experience on iOS is a completely different story. There are missing elements, broken navigation, nonsensical labels, and more problems that plague those who just want to interact with the site. If you decide to become a moderator the problems are compounded even more.
Third party apps, like Dystopia for Reddit and Apollo, have addressed this niche left so underserved for so many years because Reddit won't. It took literal years of tickets and complaints to get New Reddit to be accessible, and now the door has been shut in our collective faces. As things currently stand, this change doesn't just take away our clients; it takes away our voice.
It takes away our voice.
And what is reddit's official response to this madness? (Make no mistake, this move by reddit is madness.)
Figure it out yourself.
Here is where we stand on June 3rd: Reddit has nothing but contempt for its users, mods, and developers.
A blind moderator responded
As one of the mods of blind I depend on third party apps. Once the apps are gone, I may be left with no choice but to step down and close my 17 year old account. I hope it wont’ come to that.
There was also cross post on modsupport.
So in response to these concerns and others, Save3rdPartyApps has been formed and is also supporting the protest.
Edit 1: The list of subreddits officially participating.
Subreddits include: videos, blind, wow, truegaming, MurderedByWords, im14andthisisdeep, nasa, agedlikemilk, AbruptChaos, ukraineMT, freesoftware, dndmemes and too many to list.
Also the post is only three hours old, so I imagine there's many more to come.
Edit 2: Other major subreddits to join since are iPhone (3.8 million users) and iOS (267K), blursedimages (3.6M), Gamedev (1.1M), Samsung (287K), ShitpostCrusaders (1.1M) and a lot of NSFW subreddits.
Edit 3: Its now clear that many of these subreddits will continue being private beyond the 14th June if Reddit does not change their mind.
New subreddits that have joined include: aww, EarthPorn, LifeProTips (all over 20 million subs); creepy, Futurology (over 10 million subs); and over 50 subs with over a million subscribers including cats, Disney, hobbydrama, jobs, catswithjobs,, CleverComebacks, drawing, Frugal, illegallysmolcats, skyrim, somethingimade, suspiciouslyspecific, tihi, trees, childfree, niceguys, as well as many smaller subs.
Edit 4: If you wish to join the boycott, comment here. Here's a list of geographic subreddits that have now joined: Slovakia, Slovenia, newzealand, NewOrleans, Quebec, a bunch of of subreddits from Connecticut, US (WaterburyCT, EasternCT, newlondon, oldsaybrook, CheshireCT, WindsorCT), Seattle, baltimore, Finland, thessaloniki/ and Wallonia.
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2023.06.05 11:48 icsymphonique Not accepted to PSIA’s master

Hello everyone! So, I applied for a master in PSIA and just got informed that I was not admitted. To be honest, it came as a surprise, especially to my professors that were really confident that I will be admitted, because I was a really good candidate, according to them. SciencesPo didn’t provide any reason for the decline. What I wanted to ask, is what happens after that. Is there anything I could do? It was really important to me to get admitted but also to know the reasons that I wasn’t. What happens to the places of the students that were admitted but decide to choose another university?
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2023.06.05 11:47 forkedfertilization What Happened to Kensi on NCIS Los Angeles in 2023? Is She Sick

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2023.06.05 11:47 ThrowRAanxiousaf2005 My [28F] boyfriend's [28M] mother came over to get info from me about problems in our relationship

I've been with my bf for a year and a half and for the most part things have been great. I genuinely think he's the love of my life. However, we'd had a bit of an issue recently involving my discomfort with an ex-fling of his (he didn't do anything; her instagram account was recommended for me to follow and I didn't take too well to seeing her pop up on my feed). Having exes pop up in my line of sight has been a problem for us before as I'd rather not know about these things - I prefer to keep past relationships out of sight, out of mind. I know it's dumb, but I felt pretty low about it as I was feeling a bit insecure and was comparing myself to said ex. Not proud of that, but it is what it is. I told him I needed some time to come to terms with it, but that I'd be fine.
Fast forward a week later; I get a text from his mom asking if I would be home so she could swing by and drop off something for his sister (didn't think anything of this or why she wouldn't just drop it off at the sister's place - she doesn't live with us), so I said yes she could come round. She did, and we ended up talking for almost 2 hours. We had never had any 1-on-1 time prior to this, and I felt a little uncomfortable with some of the conversation we were having (she was telling me very personal things about the state of her mental health and also about some negative past relationship experiences). I am on the spectrum and have a difficult time with social interactions, and will both mask and try to mimic the actions with others. I offered up some personal information with her in return - including the recent issue my bf and I had been having as it was relevant to an issue she'd experienced with her husband. Overall I felt that we'd had a good talk and possibly bonded somewhat over this, but I didn't feel any better about the current situation with my bf as I just needed some time to deal with it myself, as that's generally how I handle things best. If I need external support, I will ask for it.
Fast forward another week; things have been so much better with my bf and I was feeling better myself personally. However, I had a passing thought about the whole thing with his mom and that it seemed weird she would bring stuff to our place for his sister instead of to her place. The penny finally dropped that my bf had been talking with his mom about our recent issue and she felt inclined to try and talk to me about it... I felt so dumb for not realising. I feel really uncomfortable that he was talking about our issues with her (we've had a past of him discussing our relationship with his friends which involved him talking shit about me behind my back too), and that she had asked me leading questions to gauge the situation between my bf and I. I felt very put on the spot when she came round to our place and didn't feel comfortable having that kind of conversation with her. I asked my bf about this and he confirmed that this was the case and I feel so uncomfortable. He says he didn't want her to go ahead with it, but also thought it would help me to talk to someone else other than him (which is exactly why I spoke with my friends about this). I feel very distrustful of both my bf and his mom as this whole thing happened under a guise, he didn't talk to me about it and knew I didn't want to discuss this matter any further, and I can't help that the conversation I had with his mother was disingenuous.
I don't know if I'm overreacting here, but I don't think I am. He has since apologised to me after explaining why I'm very much not okay with this, but he also stands by the fact he thinks I should see this as nothing more than them trying to help me feel better. He knows me better than this; I'm not comfortable talking with people about my personal life that I don't know well or fully trust. I feel that this has also put me in a weird position with his mom. I want to have a good relationship with her, but I can't help but feel distrusting of the situation when I know after our conversation she was texting my bf telling him what I'd said during our talk.
How do I proceed with both of them from here?
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2023.06.05 11:46 Kinulidd0 What does Hermione mean when she says "we mustn't be seen"

I'm reading the Prisoner of Azkaban and throughout the time travel scene Hermione keeps saying to Harry they mustn't be seen. But why? What would happen? She already got seen plenty of times to go to her classes.
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2023.06.05 11:46 SleepingMonads Resources for Learning about Time and Time Travel

As an enthusiast of the study of time and science fiction, I've read a lot of books and watched a lot of videos over the years that have dealt with the philosophy, physics, psychology, neuroscience, and fictional explorations of time and time travel. Along the way, I kept a list of resources that I found to be particularly insightful and entertaining, and so below is that list in case any of you are looking for recommendations for some good books and other resources regarding these topics. This list is by no means comprehensive; it's simply a collection of material I've personally learned from and enjoyed. Others are welcome to supplement it with their own recommendations in the comments below.
Philosophy of Time and Time Travel:
Science and History of Time and Time Travel:
Time Travel in Fiction:
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2023.06.05 11:46 Robster881 [Question] Fretboard Damage?

What is this damage to side of fretboard?
Image: https://imgur.com/gallery/GB4pCAu
Had, what I thought, was a bit of dirt on the side of the fretboard (not used the guitar in years and have been giving it a big clean).
So in trying to get the spec off, it seems I lifted something off the side of the fretboard. What's happened here and what would be the process for fixing it? Is it a lacquer or something?
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2023.06.05 11:46 titan_69420 First Internship

Hello everyone. I am from Bengaluru, India, and just managed to bag an internship in Oracle. It's a 2 month virtual internship and I'll be joining as a project Intern, as the title says. I'm in 6th semester now and it's gonna be my first internship. The stipend offered by them is quite decent and I kinda wanna join them full time as well (ofcourse in the hopes that the package is gonna be atleast somewhat better than the internship). But I'm completely clueless and anxious over this since it's one of the good things that has happened with me in a long time (college wise). Any tips or information that I need to know in prior to joining? What should I be prepared for before I join? ( They haven't mentioned that they won't give full time conversion so I am going in with the mindset of getting it) Any suggestions and tips are most welcome. Thank you very much everyone.
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2023.06.05 11:46 whattodo9000 Avoiding a "new" coworker

I know the title sounds bad. I've started a job where I just didn't vibe with the team and which I quickly left before. So I know the feeling of not fitting in and being uncomfortable.
But this guy joined the company more than 6 months ago. He's in his mid 20s with a degree in our industry. Yet he acts and works like an unexperienced 15-year old student who's doing their mandatory traineeship. I've trained him and provided him with lots of resources to use when I'm not there. After a while, I let him do the (simple office) job alone, but told him I'm always available for questions. Well he didn't ask questions, he just did stuff wrong. Even things I had shown him repeatedly, he had notes about or manuals on.
So the team had a crisis meeting with the boss and another person was picked to train him again. Basically starting from 0, although he was already there a couple months. The new "trainer" babied him through everything. Explaining every little step again and again with the patience of a saint.
After another 3 months, she kinda gave up and now everybody just lets him do his thing, correcting his mistakes when they blow up. He has not improved at all.
The issue is, he's just not learning. He grasped a few tasks quickly in the beginning and continues to do them well. Everything else he couldn't do and still can't, despite there being lots of templates and examples available. And quite frankly, for most tasks those aren't even needed if you use common sense. His memory is extremely bad (if you ask him about an email from 2h ago he won't know what you're talking about), he has no social skills whatsoever (he avoids talking to anyone and if he has to, he mumbles so badly you can't understand him). Never takes responsibility for anything. He seems extremely uncomfortable and intimidated BUT at the same time quite arrogant (he likes to demand all kinds of new stuff for his desk and alter processes when he doesn't even understand the original way of doing them, he's often late and just shrugs when cautioned, etc). When he does try to have smalltalk, he says weird stuff that makes me uncomfortable. When asked about why certain mistakes keep happening and how we could prevent them, he just mumbles "I don't know". The boss has had many feedback meetings with him but nothing changes.
I feel bad for him, because by now everybodys pretty much avoiding him and just waiting for someone new to get hired. He probably has some kind of disorder, but if that prevents him from doing the job then this isn't the right match. The only reason he hasn't gotten fired yet, is because we're badly understaffed and he does usually get the most tedious tasks of the job right.
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2023.06.05 11:46 Purple_Proof_628 M14 F14

So there’s this girl that I started dating and I rlly loved her from the beginning but like now that we’ve been together for so long it just idk I can see more clear like things I didn’t see about her before. There this incident where when I was looking through her insta and I looked through he chats with her boy bsf and I saw they send voice recordings I was like oh what’s this and like her guy bsf if asking her to moan for him and she does it. When I saw the text “moan for me” I was like wthhh I wasn’t rlly like to reacting towards that because I thaught i “trusted” Olivia but she actually did it. At first I was rlly sad and angers and betrayed in what I heard I couldn’t belive it. I tried bringing it u. I said to her Olivia we gotta talk she reponded with Wsp? And I was like what are u and Pablo sending to eachother trying to put it out there that it bothered me and she was like what?? And I to a sc of the audio msgs and she just laughed in the chat and she said oh the meowing that’s just an inside joke. I didn’t want to keep pressuring it so I just layed off it. A few weeks maybe 1-2 I been off she noticed it too so I finally told her and she did not Handel it well. She got very sad and regretted it which was good I’m glad she owned up to it but. She hurt herself. I I I’m sorry for saying this but when she did that I got so mad because now I felt like it was my fault what bc makes his own gf hurt her self. When she did I comforted her even tho… she’s the one that sent shit? It didn’t make sense to me. Her hurting herself triggered something in my head and then . That day was the first time I cut myself. I cut myself because I truly did not know how to feel about anything I felt horrible as a person and as a bf. I wish I could’ve done better for my gf. I still blame myself till this day Ehy she sent wtv she did and what she did to herself. I blame myself because I feel like maybe just maybe me loving her more maybe she wouldn’t have done that. Olivia claims that she didn’t know what she was doing and she was clueless and a “joke” but cmon really what freinds send and ask for stuff like that. Another thing happend with her and her boy bsf I saw it in the past but did not speak on it it was only then when we were pretty much done with the first one was when I rembered it. She practically sent to her boy bsf” look my butts getting bigger” and an imagine. I just couldn’t bare it I lashed on her saying she was emotionless and resulted in her hurting herself again. This one was worse bc we promised both eachother not to do it and she broke it and hid it from me. There more but im rlly tired. I just do not know what to do at this point in our relationship. She’s on a 2 week cruise with her boy bsf. It’s driving me nuts. I just wish I have never seen anything. I blame myself for not being a good enough bf.
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2023.06.05 11:45 Ariethecoder Would it be advisable to exercise pushups and crunches on the timeline in Post Op of 1.5 weeks?

I had my medial meniscus surgery 1.5 weeks ago, and after day three I felt that my strength in my knees was back, doctor has advised me to do 4 weeks of non-weight-bearing exercise, so for 4 weeks I can't walk with both my legs.
As I am a college student, it's summer, so it's vacation right now. Since my surgery, I have never been outside my house, I just lay on my bed watching movies and tv shows, and work daily for about 2-3 hours on my internship. My parents are taking care of me, by bringing my meals into my room. Most of the time, when I get up from my bed is to take a bathroom break. But that's it.
This lifestyle has really made me dull, and it's kind of boring, where I feel I am just gaining weight and living a temporarily sedentary lifestyle. I am really keen to do crunches/abs exercises on my bed and do pushups with my one knee up in the air. I feel I can manage it, cause I am an athlete, but just scared that I will mess up my knee more if something wrong happens by accident. Did anyone do basic exercises while they were recovering? If yes, what kind of exercises did you do?
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