So long story short, me and my husband have been married for just over 4 years and we've been talking about starting a family. He is really eager to and so am I, I just don't feel like we are ready. Financially and emotionally. I didn't have the greatest childhood and I want to make sure my future kids have the best future possible for them. The last conversation we had about this was about a month ago and I told him I was firm in waiting a little longer. He was disappointed but respects my decision to wait.
Okay here is where the red flag is going off. Yesterday my coworker was stressing about finding a babysitter for her 3 month old next week and I offered to babysit on me and my husband's days off and she was incredibly grateful. I was really excited about it actually because I wanted to see how me and my husband work together with a baby. Like a test run before we decide. When I got home and told him we would be babysitting for a couple of days he immediately started to complain. He said he didn't want to be spending his "resting" days taking care of a baby. When I reminded him that he really wanted to start a family and I figured it would be nice to see how we did together, he said "yeah, but not with somebody's else's baby, I don't see how that's the same" and basically told me he would be playing video games while I babysat since that's what he does on his days off.
This whole thing is making me want to hold off on having a family even longer, it doesn't sound like he's ready. If he thinks my coworker's baby is burden for him, will he think that way about our child? Please help :( I love him in every way but now I'm scared if we do have a kid I'm going to be doing all the work

It’s such a weird thing to do. Was he trying to make her jealous? Like maybe she dumped him & he’s trying to get revenge by showing her what he’s got now is better than her? I’d love to know what he was thinking when he did that.

I was hoping to find a good spot to take a picture or the entire strip for a photography class im taking. any one have any good locations?

Hi All - semi newbie question. I have tried IF in the past with great results. However, over the past six months or so, I've changed jobs and the new jobs requires me to travel a lot. Long hours at work, a lot of red-eye flights and an erratic schedule have led me to gain about 30lbs.
I'm currently about 235lbs, and have a goal weight of about 180ish. I thought I'd give IF a shot again and start with a 16:8 to see where it takes me. The challenge, however, is that, while I'm able to get by the 16, with a black coffee in tow, it's the food in the 8 that's taking a hit. I know that my diet sucks. Because I'm always on the road, either traveling or elsewhere, I can't seem to stick to good food and end up relying on frozen meals, or junk comfort food (read slices of pizza, hot dogs, etc.) and have zero exercise.
This isn't helping with the weight loss and I suppose I don't sleep so well either. I've been at it for about 3 weeks now but haven't lost a pound and I'm beginning to wonder if IF is for me considering the lifestyle I have.
Any advice please?
I know in the long run, my current role isn't sustainable and I'll burn myself out. While I'm looking for other opportunities, in the meantime I'd be grateful if you anyone could provide guidance.
Thanks!

I bought this six pack of 12 FL OZ beer without reading the "Fruit Force" in big red lettering, which instantly makes it in some circles arguably deceptive marketing. I was expecting it to be IPA but this shit that is absolute shit wrapped in shit with a shit inner-core, makes it horrendous dogshit. Why would you drink a fruit punch IPA unless of course you like fruit punch IPA.

I see pictures of my husband with other people and he has the most beautiful, joyful smile. It radiates happiness and you can see it’s genuine. I haven’t found one picture of us like that. I see his smile changes when he’s with me - it’s all in his mouth and his eyes don’t smile. Even have noticed a diff when I join a pic he was in, his smile diminishes….
I just feel like my presence makes him unhappy. I love him, but feel like it’s unloving to keep him stuck with me. I just feel so low and empty and I almost wish I was alone because I feel like being alone wouldn’t be as painful as being so disliked. :/

I’m a little over a month from turning 30 and it’s pretty daunting going into that alone. With the final stage of grief is acceptance so at this point I have to accept that my social skills are straight up trash. So here I am! Looking for my best friend on Reddit.
Before we get started, here’s a picture of me if you wanna see the bag of bones you’re talking to: https://imgur.com/gallery/7Z75WAV
I think my biggest issue is that most of the things I like to do aren’t traditional “guy” things to do. I’m not into sports, fishing, golf, cars or anything like that. I enjoy books and libraries, I spend a ton of time at book stores. I also listen to way too many audiobooks while I’m driving, working or just too mentally exhausted to exist. It’s to the pint where I’m at almost 8 months of listening time on audible. So if you’re into that and doing reading challenges on goodreads, you should definitely shoot me a message! Outside of my unhealthy coping mechanism of hiding in books, I also love food, games of all kinds, cold weather, lazy days binge rewatching my favorite shows and hoarding hoodies. I’m an elder emo kid and I pretty much dress the exact same way I did in high school. Now that I mention it, I listen to the same bands as I did in high school outside of the cool songs I find on TikTok. I love going to anime conventions, the renaissance festival, musicals, movies and concerts.
Some boring stuff about me: I work as a devops engineer remotely so I do t get outside of the house much. I hate the heat and humidity, so Kansas City during the summer has me stick to anywhere with AC.
What I’m looking for: Pretty much anyone as long as you are also an adult, you aren’t racist and you’re LGBTQ+ friendly. I’d love for us to have some shared hobbies and some different hobbies so we can introduce each other to new stuff. It would also be awesome if you lived in/near Kansas City but not definitely required, especially if you’d be cool with eventually meeting in the future!
What I can offer you: - Bad jokes - Recommendation of books and manga/anime - Companionship - Someone to tag along to things you’d rather not do alone

I’m a little over a month from turning 30 and it’s pretty daunting going into that alone. With the final stage of grief is acceptance so at this point I have to accept that my social skills are straight up trash. So here I am! Looking for my best friend on Reddit.
Before we get started, here’s a picture of me if you wanna see the bag of bones you’re talking to: https://imgur.com/gallery/7Z75WAV
I think my biggest issue is that most of the things I like to do aren’t traditional “guy” things to do. I’m not into sports, fishing, golf, cars or anything like that. I enjoy books and libraries, I spend a ton of time at book stores. I also listen to way too many audiobooks while I’m driving, working or just too mentally exhausted to exist. It’s to the pint where I’m at almost 8 months of listening time on audible. So if you’re into that and doing reading challenges on goodreads, you should definitely shoot me a message! Outside of my unhealthy coping mechanism of hiding in books, I also love food, games of all kinds, cold weather, lazy days binge rewatching my favorite shows and hoarding hoodies. I’m an elder emo kid and I pretty much dress the exact same way I did in high school. Now that I mention it, I listen to the same bands as I did in high school outside of the cool songs I find on TikTok. I love going to anime conventions, the renaissance festival, musicals, movies and concerts.
Some boring stuff about me: I work as a devops engineer remotely so I do t get outside of the house much. I hate the heat and humidity, so Kansas City during the summer has me stick to anywhere with AC.
What I’m looking for: Pretty much anyone as long as you are also an adult, you aren’t racist and you’re LGBTQ+ friendly. I’d love for us to have some shared hobbies and some different hobbies so we can introduce each other to new stuff. It would also be awesome if you lived in/near Kansas City but not definitely required, especially if you’d be cool with eventually meeting in the future!
What I can offer you: - Bad jokes - Recommendation of books and manga/anime - Companionship - Someone to tag along to things you’d rather not do alone

My friends 4 year old just passed away and I want to print them a model to remember her. Her 2 favorite things are care bears and Eevee from pokemon. I have a care bear.stl but I need a picture of Eevee on its chest. Anyone help a brother out

I am 50 y/o, I did a Dutch Plus test that showed I was below on all my hormones Progesterone, Estrogen, Testosterone, DHEAS and Cortisol. I went to a medical center that does BHRT and was placed on Bi-Est (80/20)/Progesterone 150mg cream, Testosterone 15 ml cream, 5mg DHEA-S (But was immediately taken off) and Amour 15mg for Hypothyroid.
A week and a half into the Bioidenticals, I got an eczema patch on my right elbow followed by an itchy red thick line up to my wrist. I placed the Estrogen/Progesterone cream on that wrist. A few days later, my face got a red itchy rash, my scalp became intensely itchy and I got hives all over my body. I stopped the estrogen/progesterone cream. Since then, during certain times during my cycle, I get this horrific rash; it only lasts 4 days during one time, 3 days another and 7 the last and starts over with the new cycle. My dermatologist took a biopsy and discovered it’s Lichen Simplex Chronicus. I never once scratched or rubbed when I suffered any of these flare ups.
My question is I am at my wits end, I went to the Bioidenticals to fix my hormone imbalance that was causing me issues from something back in 2017 and now I have this and my original problem, can a Functional Doctor help me with this or am I now stuck in this nightmare?

If this is still posted I'm still open to chat!
Hey lovely people! If you're like me then intimacy, sensuality, and passion are some of your favorite parts of sex. There's something magical about that raw connection and feeling our bodies connect the way nature intended with absolutely nothing between us. That's what I'm looking to talk about today. I'd love to hear what gets you turned on by the thought or experience of unprotected sex/breeding, what some of your fantasies are, and, if we hit it off, maybe get into some sexting or sharing pics. No pressure, though! We'll only go as far as you feel comfortable with, so if you don't want to share pictures I'm perfectly okay with just chatting. I'm only having fun if you're having fun, too 🙂
A little description of me in case you're curious: 31, white, 6'2", somewhat athletic/slender build, short brown hair that I style in the front, blue eyes, a trimmed beard, hairy chest, and what I like to think is a nice, squeezable butt, haha. Just over 6", circumcised, and trimmed pubic hair if that matters.
Some of my other kinks in case you're interested: cuddling that turns to sex, massages that turn to sex, shower sex, morning sex, oral sex (giving and receiving), masturbating together, cumplay/a general enthusiasm for cum, asking/begging me to cum inside you, wrapping your legs around me, eye contact, falling asleep with my cock and cum still inside you, and probably many more I'm not thinking of.
Limits include: any type of violence or abuse (physical, mental, emotional), rape/non-con/dub-con, BDSM, blood, scat, vomit, anything to do with animals, and stuff along those lines. If you're curious about something not mentioned here feel free to ask!
If you've made it this far and it all sounds good to you then great! I look forward to hearing from you!

Hi all. Just like the title reads. My wife put a bow on our two month daughter when we went out and about earlier today. At some point my wife adjusted before leaving one destination and I think during the car ride it shifted. At max it could have been in the spot for maybe 45 minutes when we caught. When we found it my daughter was acting completely normal. There was more of an indent directly on her fontanelle.
She was at one point crying her head off but she was overdue on a diaper change and meal while we were on the road but she calmed herself shortly after.
She is acting completely normal, but it still freaks me out. My wife got pretty upset as well, we’re first time parents. That said she’s a nurse and I’m a paramedic so I feel we have some level competency in terms of medical conditions. Just wanted to get everyone else’s opinion on the situation. My wife thinks we don’t need to call the doctor since she is acting 100% normal. Her soft spot seemed to return back to normal within an hour or so as well.

Hi so sorry for the long post lmao but I need some advice or outside perspective on what to do and how to possibly go about ending things. There’s so many things that this person has done but I can’t mention them all as this post would genuinely be never ending.
I (18 M) and my partner (18 M/F) (shes gender fluid) have been together for a couple of months now. I remember loving and having this huge crush on him thinking he was amazing and I still do love him and think he’s great but at the same time there are things about him that I’ve come to realise either just don’t make sense or has crossed lines that I’ve stated I was uncomfortable with.
So basically I told him that because of things that have happened in my past- (SA and grooming) I’ve been uncomfortable having sex or seeing the naked body and this was a thing he knew before we even got together and has acknowledged because he got changed in a separate room to me when I went over to his house, but he’s sent me his old nudes that at the time I didn’t really think much of but they automatically saved to my phone due to the app I talk to him through and now I can’t bear to look at my photos because if I see even a glimpse of them it makes me feel sick and disgusting so I haven’t been able to delete them. We were on the phone a few days ago and she kept mentioning to me that she hadn’t taken any good nudes as of late and that she’ll miss being in the house by herself because she wouldn’t be able to walk around without a top on (she’s got a female body) and she kept talking about it and it made me uncomfortable because of the mental image- and then she send me a picture of her without a top her top on and I felt very uncomfortable but felt I couldn’t say anything so she didn’t get upset. But I genuinely can’t look at a naked body regardless of if it’s just the top or bottom half. She knew but decided to do this anyway.
Another issue I’ve had is that I can’t be over peoples houses overnight because again it makes me uncomfortable because of past issues I’ve had prior to them. She knows this. But has complained to me about it so I went over twice to appease her but she then assumed that I was going to go over every Friday night and I told her no, she tried to tell me that her younger brother wanted to see me because she would tell him I was coming over without me knowing she even wanted me over in the first place. I cannot stress the amount of times I’ve told her being around places overnight stress me out and make me incredibly uncomfortable, she says in her words “I know and I get that BUT I just want to be around you and cuddle with you and sleep with you” and she complains that she goes out with people who live with their partners and says that she can’t do that stuff with me because I don’t want to go over.
The last thing I have a main issue with is the fact she doesn’t seem to know or care how I don’t like how people seem to stare at her chest or try and flirt with her when I’m not there knowing we are together and she’s told me that it only ever becomes an issue if it makes her uncomfortable. I told her that, that shouldn’t be the only issue there and the fact that people know we are together and think it’s okay to flirt with her and want to do sexual things with her isn’t okay and is incredibly desperate and pathetic and incredibly disrespectful and she told me I was expecting too much.
There was one guy we were friends with I’m going to call them L, I did so much shit for L because I thought he was truly a victim of abuse and neglect (abuse from partner and neglect from parents) turns out none of that was true and he was actually the abuser and he stated that he wanted to eat out my partner and when my partner learned of this and when I brought it up she IMMEDIATELY defended him and said “I’d get it if he was single” and all this other bs that I don’t remember right now.
I want to break up because there are so so many other issues that I have and now every single thing frustrates me the only reason I haven’t broke up with her is because I’m afraid she’ll say that she’s going to self harm because when we first got together or something she mentions that if I hadn’t gotten with her when I did that she would be in a dark place with SH and other horrible things.
I’m so so sorry for the long post lol but I’ve had like one person to talk to about this and I think I need some outside perspective any advice would be greatly appreciated.